Words that should never tell in marriag

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There is no perfect relationship. It is time that spouses make the best among them and say everything, in fact there are some things that should not say never.
“Why I am not married yet,” many of us ask themselves this question and the answer is love, security and fear of being alone. However, there are sporadic outbursts sometimes when you marry, but here are things that should not ever say to our men! Husband never say “stupid”. It makes them feel insecure about themselves and they can carry that feeling in other situations. Remember, what you want and that you think about them not very important.
Do not call incompetent or weak. Again, what you do really matters. Even though they may not operate when there is a mid-point actually. Instead, to highlight their strength. Instead you can say “I know you’re trying, but I would like to see …”
Throughout the course of the marriage, people will have their opinions on whether the man is good or bad. However, should never agree to make a negative comment from someone else about your husband. For example, never say things like, “My mother was right about you, you’re …”. It only feeds the “quarrel” and your spouse will feel that you do the same thing.
Never, ever for any reason to compare it with your ex. This may raise some speculation that her husband has been unfaithful or were not on your own. This can make men feel insecure about himself and can compete for your attention. No one should be running at a wedding when they have already won. You have championship rings!
Never tell your husband “hate.” It evokes more anger and may raise questions of whether you really feel. Ultimately, you have promised to love, honor and respect. Avoid these three words.
Never tell them you think that marriage is a mistake. Again, this may raise doubts about your loyalty. Also husband may feel uncertain about independence and may force them to think the same thing.
Never think aloud: Why was married? Because they will think that you intend to share them. Be careful here, if they think they can and can try to make the move earlier. In addition, you must have the answer to this question since the day you received.